SEX chatlines are big business, with one in three men reportedly using them.
Previously, we told how a jobless loner ran up a £91,000 phone bill on saucy calls.
But who are these men and what are they looking for? Jenny Ainslie-Turner, a 57-year-old sex chatline worker from Newcastle, has written a book basedon men’s sexual fantasies.
Here, she talks to DIANA APPLEYARD.
“MY clients range in age from their late teens to a 78-year-old who calls me
To some I am a teenage nymphomaniac, to others I am myself — a bubbly big lady who’s happy to give them a good thrashing.
In real life I am a dress size 24, and a lot of men love that.
They say: “Are you going to squash me?”
I always answer the phone as “Jolene” — I never give out my real name.
It’s all part of the fantasy — we are anonymous and can say anything that we
want to, no matter how outrageous.
No matter how well you think you know your husband or partner, I bet I know them better if they call me.
Men say things to me they would never in their wildest dreams say to their
Sometimes they know what they want me to say to them to excite them, but most of the time I lead the conversation.
I tease them along, finding out what turns them on, and then create the most
incredible sexual fantasies.
One morning a new caller said that he had a very specific fantasy.
I do specialise in the bizarre, the extreme and the unusual, but this had to
be all three rolled into one.
He said, “I want to be a pig — a female pig.”
I told him I’d be the chef, and that I had to bring him to the kitchen for preparation, where I would cook him, chop him up and put him into sandwiches.
We had a conversation about what type of bread to use and he told me he wanted to be smothered in mustard.
By this time I could tell he was getting very excited.
It’s a very good job I have an active imagination, because sometimes my callers can be on the line for up to three hours — and I am doing most of the talking and creating the role play while they amuse themselves at the other end.
I’ve had men calling me in a whisper. When I ask, “Why are you whispering?”
they say: “The wife’s asleep in bed beside me.”
The obvious question is why not wake up your wife and have sex with her — but obviously they love the danger and naughtiness of ringing a sex chat line.
I have men who want two-girl chat — that gets very spicy — and all manner of
You would not believe how many men want fantasies in which I literally smother them to death.
Occasionally I get couples who call together, and we create a three-way fantasy.
I also have women calling, for girl-on-girl action.
I take it all in my stride. I have perfected the husky, low-voiced sexy tone that men really adore.
This job has taught me that men are so different from women — they have to
have that release.
As well as the men who call from their homes while their wives are asleep I have men calling me from public phone boxes, even from the toilet on a train.
I got into the sex line business 12 years ago.
I worked for the MoD for 18 years, as a silver service waitress for the forces.
It was great training for what I do now — the men would say all kinds of things to me and nothing shocked me.
Then I started caring for my mum at home after she had a heart attack.
I wanted a new career, one I could run from home and control my own hours.
I saw an advert for chat lines and thought, “That’s it!”. I’ve always been a writer, and have a fantastic imagination.
After so long with the forces, I know how men tick and what they want to hear.
I hesitantly rang a chat line and signed up — and it took off almost straight
I can be on the phone between six and 14 hours a day, and can make as much as £500 a day.
A lot of the men who ring me are divorced, single or lonely, but quite a feware married.
I think that men can’t help their obsession with sex.
They are led by their privates, and have almost no control over it, no matter what they might say.”
2. Sucking on breast milk
3. Being dressed up as a woman
4. Worshipping my big backside
5. Wife catching him in bed with another woman – and joining in
6. Being told in detail how to pleasure himself
7. Naughty schoolgirl
8. Sex with the mother in-law
Will You Be My Fantasy? is published by Netherworld Books and costs £8.99
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